What if the pain you’ve been carrying isn’t the end of your story—but the place where a new frame can begin?
In life, we all face moments that crack the way we see the world. We lose a job. A relationship falls apart. Someone we trusted betrays us. We don’t just feel the pain—we start seeing through it. Over time, our view of ourselves, others, and even God gets distorted. We try to control, protect, or bury the hurt. But it always finds its way back to the surface.
In Chapter 3 of The Reframe Principle, we explore what it means to face these negative circumstances not with denial, but with trust. Not through performance or control—but through surrender to the God who is already at work in the mess.
Romans 8:28 isn’t a bandage. It’s a promise: “In all things God works for the good of those who love Him.” That doesn’t mean everything is good. It means that nothing is wasted in the hands of God.
In this chapter, I share how my own battle with control and anxiety led to emotional outbursts and broken relationships. I thought being loud enough or “right enough” would make the pain go away. But healing didn’t come through being heard. It came through being still.
“Be still, and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)
It wasn’t until I let God into the chaos that I began to experience true peace. Not the absence of struggle, but the presence of Christ reframing the story I was telling myself.
Reframing isn’t positive thinking. It’s gospel thinking.
It’s not about pretending things didn’t hurt—it’s about asking, “What is God doing in me through this?” That shift in perspective doesn’t come naturally, but it does come supernaturally. And when it does, your circumstances may not change overnight—but you will.
If you’re ready to stop reacting and start healing…
If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of control, shame, or fear…
If you’re wondering if God can really work something good out of your story…
There’s a way forward.
And it begins with seeing your life the way Jesus does—through a lens of love, purpose, and redemption.
The Reframe Principle is more than a book—it’s a path to healing and wholeness. Chapter by chapter, you’ll be invited to surrender your old framework and receive a new one formed by the truth of who God is and who He says you are.
Pick up your copy of The Reframe Principle today on Amazon or visit our resource page to start the journey.
Your story isn’t over—it’s being reframed.
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